It's no surprise that no escort member replied to this thread,https://www.lyla.ch/topic/214810-anyone-see-sonia-dubois-before/  by explaining to Adam why his thread was wrong to post, and why it went sideways. I understand doing so often will often bring negativity towards those escorts who are brave enough to stand up to some clients, and I also get that some escorts just don't care to comment.Some escorts don't care if a client is problematic, or gossipy. They'll see anyone who has the cash. Adam needs to stick with those escorts.....

That whole section, "escort discussion Nova Scotia", wasn't initially set up for clients to post daily "has anyone seen" . It's transcended into a gossip section where the same few clients will comment postiviely or negatively, about escorts they've seen or want to see, irregardless of any escorts boundaries. Some might consider that type of questioning, "discussion". It's not, it's gossip. I believe that section was initially meant to be used for discussing escort related topics to help advance the "community". The few "petty Pauls" that use that section now have turned it into a pointless and petty section where the usual suspects  blabber on about a few locals who they favor and nit pick and denigrate those they deem questionable....

And I'm sorry if Adam finds my comments harsh. He and others like him need to be better, to do better. I'm sure they are capable....

I'll never understand why he, and those like him, never take the time to pose the questions they have about an escort, to the escort in question. Wouldn't she be the best person to answer any questions about her, her service/ her boundaries/her schedule, etc, etc!! I am always polite to those who are polite and informed, who don't ask questions which have already been answered on my site, or in my ads. Most of us are like mirrors, we reflect the behavior we are given. So if you've received rudeness from a particular escort, perhaps you've been rude, lazy, or appeared like a timewaster.... Something else I don't get, is why these guys think asking another client how an escort was.Many of us will treat each client we see differently. As I said, often how you are treated is because of the energy we've felt, how you treated us. Many of us choose our clients based on many factors, namely connection. If there wasn't a connection after meeting you in person, then clearly your experience won't be the same as someone with whom an escort has connected, so again, asking for an opinion won't give any guarantee, or even any idea, as to how your experience will be. But it seems Adam and his ilk prefer to hear the gossip, the maybe's, the pointless opinions....They seem to love their gossip about escorts. They all also seem to have a disregard for research, and reading an escorts advertising.

All that being said..... What upset me the most, and what prompted this blog was his last comment, pictured below. Even after another client politely  explained to him.....He went on to complain, refuse culpability, and instead replied with blaming her because he thinks her boundaries are to far reaching. He and others like him just can't seem to understand that because a person may advertise themselves as an escort, companion, or service provider, does NOT then give any client or potential client any right to their services, or any right to discuss them or their services, as they choose. WE the escorts, call the shots on how we wish to be treated, discussed, who we see, when and where. We can set up which ever boundaries we choose to initiate.You as the client can then decide whether you agree to them by following them to obtain our services, or you can move on to another escort who has boundaries you feel more comfortable with.To go onto a gossip board to whine about them just makes you appear problematic, petty and typical to those who use those boards. You, the client, NEVER have a right to circumvent our boundaries in any way!! If you don't like how I or any other escort operates, it's simple, don't seek our services. We are fine with that. There are plenty of clients who are respectful towards our requests, who aren't lazy, who take the time to read our ads/websites/socials to learn about us. Who follow our booking protocols, and who understand that we the escort are always the best person to answer any questions they may have about ourselves or our services. There are plenty of clients who don't need another "joe" to tell them an escort is "good to see", they can decide for themselves. 

It is because of people like Adam, that we have to set up and be firm with our boundaries. To many like him seem to think they can use and abuse us and our information as they choose. To many of them it's a joke, to them, breaching our boundaries is "no big deal! This is also another reason that many of us detest the review, or as I call them, the gossip boards. Those boards grow and groom men like Adam.

 I am so very grateful to those clients who understand that discretion is a two way street.That we need to, and have a right to protect ourselves in any and every way we see fit. And thank you to those clients who steer clear of those boards, because they see them for what they are!!

Edit-So I noticed the lady mentioned responded to this thread, and to Adam. Her response was a long explanation as to why she wanted no reviews, and she also mentioned how that board, lyla was okay and apparently okay to review her there.... To my surprise she spent no time admonishing Adam for his comments. Even after he asked her to provide more pics that were less edited....lol!!  People on those hobby boards never cease to surprise me, lol!!