Ever since texting became in vogue, I disliked it. I find it impersonal, and annoying. If I have anything to say to someone with whom I may be in any kind of a relationship with, I want it said either ear to ear, or face to face. Call me old fashioned, or just old, lol. I don't care. It's my right to have my preference. This stance is something I hold to also as an escort. If I'm going to meet a gentleman for an intimate date, I want to be able to hear his voice beforehand, and to communicate with him in a manner that I feel comfortable with, and that is an over the phone conversation. For anyone to imply that my means of cummunicating is less discreet and more likely to be recorded, simply because it doesn't work for them, is naive, unfair, and far reaching.

I was saddened to read a comment by another escort who I held respect for, comment that men who want phone calls only want them so they can jack off in the listeners ear, and (quote) "that phone calls are * never * discreet, because no one can insure-(should be *ensure*), that phone calls are not being recorded"(end quote). I understand that this may have been her experience, and I'm sorry for that, and that many escorts prefer to communicate through texting and or emails. That doesn't mean one mode of communication is better, or safer than another. I can ensure her and others of this, and that is..... NO ONE can ensure anyone that any of our communications, regardless of how they are being made, are completely discreet. I make and receive calls regularly, and all have been discreet as far as I'm concerned. No one was within ear shot, and to my knowledge, no one else was listening in, other than my intended person. I can be as certain of this as she can be that no one, other than she and her intended person/s, are viewing her texts and or emails after she sends them. Fact is, we live in an indiscreet world and most everything we do and say can be intruded upon, by anyone with enough prowess and desire. So lets not make comments, implications, or assumptions, concerning how another conducts their business, that could incite paranoia or which could lead to misinterpretation. Thank you.