I've spoken on this subject a few times, having read something recently, prompts me to broach it again....

Sometimes you'll hear a client praising an escort for dressing as he requested. He'll compliment her for being "easy to get along with"....the problem with that message is that it infers that those of us who dislike outfit requests, as being difficult, or not wanting to please our clients. Which isn't the case. A date with someone, especially someone new, is a little nerve wracking to begin with, and when someone expects you to dress up as they want, and not as you'd feel comfortable, can add to that nervousness.....I understand that some clients have a look they find sexier than others, and that they fantasize about, yet they need to also keep in mind that the look they want may not suit the escort they've chosen to meet. They should also know before making those requests,  whether or not the escort is open to them.

I want to look my best, for any client, and I know what styles of clothing suits me the best. I also have a certain style of dressing that helps me to feel in the mood, and sexy. So I'll always prefer to choose what I wear. I have no judgement towards those escorts who'll do what their clients request, that's their buisness, not mine, nor towards clients who have a need to expect a certain dress code. However, clients need to know that we're all different regarding the services we offer and how we offer them. No client should want to make it appear that an escort who dislikes clothing requests, is being difficult, or less accommodating. We all have preferences, and people who have preferences aren't being difficult, people who push their preferences upon another, are....

  What clients need to do more of is research, reading ads/websites, and listening to an escorts likes/dislikes. That way they can more easily find someone who'll suit their whims. We all advertise to give our clients insight into what we offer, don't allow, etc....please pay attention to that.