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Mentioning addresses...

28 Apr, 2024

It no longer shocks me that our local review board has allowed some of it's careless members to once again post a providers location. They named the street/road/ave.....Then, when one responsible member mentioned that it was wrong to do so, it was played off as no big deal. ......Here is the issue, mentioning any providers locale, be that a street name, a neighborhood, a hotel, etc, puts that provider in jeopardy!! Any respectful, intelligent person who interacts within this industry knows this. Anytime a providers locale is made known publicly it jeopardizes their safety.That's all that should need to be said to make it from happening over and over again!!! It opens them up to stalkers, possible landlord issues (if they're renting), looky lous, and other needless problems. Far to many review board dickheads thinks that's it's a joke, and no big deal and it's always them who cry the loudest when some infinitesimal issue occurs when they're "hobbying".... I'm surprised that  redhead that always has something to say on that board hasn't said something  .......

The recent foolishness on that board seems to be getting worse. Guys making disparaging comments about local ladies, guys making uninformed comments about reviews, and other immature nonsense. In one thread you have one guy praising two local girls, and their service, then you have another guy stating that they aren't good, and not for him.....hence my opinion about reviewing an escort encounter. Intimacy isn't something anyone should want to rate or review like you'd do to any other inanimate object, it should be discreet. After all, discretion is first and foremost in this industry!!  And intimacy is far to subjective.If a provider is providing an authentic service, it's never going to be the same, from one client to another....and one mans gold might be another mans bronze, so how does speaking about that openly, aide anyone? Another reason is, as in the instance mentioned above, people hear negative comments far more loudly than they hear postive ones. And more often than not, guys will make negative comments unnecessarily,and undeservedly. They'll weaponize their reviews or use them to promote someone who may not necessarily deserve promoting. It's a flawed system, used by flawed people, imo....and  as far as I'm concerned and I'm sorry to say, any provider that uses those boards is aiding in promoting that behavior by using those boards.......It's sad that there are so many within this industry who think of themselves only, and not about how their actions, or inactions are hurtful and or harmful to others. They promote their willingness to be helpful or considerate, all while being selfish and inconsiderate.

In this industry there will always be gentlemen and review board dickheads..... Gentlemen undertand discretion, respect it, and they treat those they visit, like human beings,and not play toys,or objects. Then you have those review board dickheads who get off on talking about their "conquests" . They have no idea of discretion, nor an understanding of intimacy. They think fucking is a sport, and anyone they fuck they have to talk about. Perhaps that's all they're capable of, and that's all they've got to talk about.....

Shame on me for lurking again....