My screening changes depending on who's wanting an appointment. For some I'll request they send picture ID. Although that, nor any type of screening, will not guarantee that the client booking will follow through with their appointment, nor does it mean they'll honor my cancellation policy. There are those assholes who just don't care .There are guys who book just to find out incall locales, or who get off  on just wasting an escorts time. So I expect every now and then to have to deal with these assholes. Although my intuition isn't always the best at determining who is up to no good, and who legitimately has to cancel....as my most recent ordeal will attest...... 

Recently I had a gentleman pre-book me for a date. Everything had gone smoothly in the booking process, and I was looking forward to our date. The day of he followed all my protocols. Yet I had a nagging feeling something just wasn't right...and sure enough, within the hour of our meet time, he sent me a text to cancel our date. The text seemed contrived...... I then sent him a text asking him to send my cancellation fee to my gmail. He text back quickly that he couldn't he didn't know how...... We had a further exchange of texts/calls with him promising to pay my cancel fee. Then more time passes and he texts that he can't do an etransfer....he didn't know how. Another red flag, I thought, lol, I mean, who can't do an etransfer?.....In the end, this man did pay me, along with giving me a lovely card and a bottle of wine. He did have a legitimate reason to cancel and thankfully for him, that reason no longer became urgent...... we agreed to laugh about all of this the next time we will meet.

All the years of dealing with so many dishonest people has engrained in me that most are dishonest, when in fact that isn't really the case. I know there are good guys out there, of course, many of them are my regualr clients...... I just have to learn to be more trusting and patient with some of them......Thank you to him for being so gracious and kind.