You can have all the muscle men, and the good looking studs, just let me have the men with intelligence, confidence, compassion and humor. He can have any body shape, my interest is in his mind.....Intelligence is sexy!! Even though I'm steadfast in many of my opinions, I enjoy different perspectives, learning new things and hearing someone speak on subjects they've experience with and knowledge of. Any man who is emotionally intelligent, book smart, educated, and who has a higher iq, will have my attention. Smarts are sexy, especially when coupled with compassion and humor. I'm not highly educated, for various reasons, and I respect those who took the time and spent the years learning a trade or gaining a university degree, or degrees......I respect and admire anyone who's found their path and who's happily travelling, or who has travelled it. University always intimidated me. And even though I thourougly enjoy pleasure providing ( a clients term for my profession) I've always wanted to find that "something" I could do, and do openly. Escorting as you may know, isn't something one can be open about. There is so much stigma surrounding the profession, being open about it can lead to negative repercussions, so I've experienced. I'll continue to enjoy it regardless, but I have to admit I long to have a job/profession that society wouldn't frown upon. I'd love to be able to proudly proclaim, "I'm a such and such", when asked "so what do you do" ?.....and perhaps I'm looking at this all worng, perhaps I should proudly proclaim I'm a pleasure provider....but once you've lived through the negative repercussions of being known as an escort, it makes one more leery of doing so, again. Even though my experiences have also taught me that a persons profession/title/education does not determine their character, I still admire educated people. And even more so, those who are educated, intelligent, and compassionate.