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I'm confused......

28 Apr, 2024

Again on the review board OWNED by Leolist, more escort clients and escorts are complaining about the scammers that plague Leolist. What confuses me is that they are complaining on the review board, Lyla, which is owned by the advertising site Leolist, and speaking as if they're separate entities. Why don't they just message the moderators and ask why the owners of those sites allow scammers to place ads. Do that, instead of pretending that one site is better than the other..... Ask them why the owners and or moderators, have the ability to vet people before they join Lyla, and then ban some for stupid or petty reasons, yet they continue to allow those who are actually ripping people off and putting people in dangerous situations to advertise, over and over again, without any repercussions. 

The only reason this concerns me is that I advertise on Leolist. And I get quite tired of some of Lyla's members spewing the nonsense that that review board some how is a safer, and a better place to post, than Leolist when again, they are one and the same, and run by the same people. Quite honestly, they both suck. But we all have to advertise somewhere, and Leolist is the leading site in google searches, at least for now. So I say this again, for the hundreth time, if you're going to throw one under the bus, take the other with you, all while including the fact that they are owned and run by the same people, and if you're going to make complaints, complain to their owners, and ask them why they won't put a stop to all the scammers, and please stop perpetuating that membership on any one site is an assurance of anyone's professionalism, proof of existence, honesty, or any sign of good character.There are lots of game players, trouble makers and other ner do wells who *are* Lyla members. You don't become washed with saint hood because you join that site.....An individual sets the precedence of professionalism, and good character, not because of the advertising site or review board they are posting on, or have membership to!!! 

On the topic of text apps....more and more men who seek out escorts are using text apps. Which are disposable phone numbers. I for one, will not deal with any client who uses one. I expect any client I'm to meet to have a registered cell number. If I'm going to be alone with any man, I have to know who he is, and him having a real number, along with other information provided, will give me a sense of safety, and trackable data, should he do anything nefarious to me.Those who refuse to give id, and other personal details, and who use text apps, are hiding more than their escort indulgences. They usually have an agenda, and that agenda could be something as stupid and childish as just wanting to waste an escorts time, or something more sinister, such as physical harm. Whatever the agenda, those guys using text apps, often have something planned other than just wanting to have some discreet fun and I block and ignore them all. That cannot be compared to those escorts who use text apps to advertise. Many escorts use apps instead of having to purchase two phones, or two numbers. Remember the client seeks us out....... An escorts advertising, social media, websites, should give the client all they need to determine the escorts professionalism, and proof of being real  ......If more clients did their research and actually read ads/websites/socials and most importantly, verbally communicated with those they wanted to meet, fewer clients would be scammed.

  Any escort who requests deposits/id's, and who'll only deal with those clients who'll provide such, should be those escorts you'd want to deal with, not avoid. Yet for many men, they'll choose those escorts who only use texting as a way of communication, and who also won't ask the client for any personal information, or a deposit......Think before you contact someone, with your big head!!