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Here we go again......

27 Apr, 2024

So on twitter, there is an American escort who is now being chastised, blocked, muted, encouraged to be ousted from the "community", because she is "putting us all at risk". She posted a selfie of a client who didn't follow her screening protocol properly. I won't link the thread, because I don't want it to garner more attention.Those escorts who are rt'ing and quoting the post should also know by doing so, they are allowing that poor mans unnecessarily posted photo, to be distributed more. I don''t agree with what she did, as I believe the only time a client/potential client should be doxed, is when they have been *proven" to be of harm to anyone and  then that should, imo, involve the police. I also disagree with these threads on twitter on which other escorts gang up on, and bully an escort, who they feel has done something untoward to the "proverbial" community.   

   Every escort I know, including myself, preaches the old standard words, "we're independents", "therefore we have the right to run our businesses as we see fit". This standard saying is repeated anytime an escort commments on another escorts rates, the services they offer, etc, etc, etc....Yet in instances like how this escort handled her client, it suddenly becomes everyones business and about "protecting the community". No longer is she an independent, no longer is her business, her business! She is apart of a community. Even though many commenting to her have never known of or interacted with her. They claim that she is putting "us all" at risk, and that her actions gives those clients who are reluctant to screen, another reason to be weary in doing so.....And there is some truth in that. BUT and again, if we are all independents, with the right to run our business as we see fit, then how that American escort decides to handle *her* clients  is apart of her business practice, and should also be her business alone, not ours to judge. Because they are her clients when they are booking her, and they should know how she operates, if they do their due diligence and research her. If we are going to use the "it puts us all at risk" reasoning for vilifying her, and as a justification for outing her as being a "risk" to the "community", because of how she operates her business, then we should then extend that belief to how we all operate, with much of what we do. Because how we charge, how we provide our services, the services we do provide, whether we screen or not, ask for deposits or not, how we advertise, what we say, etc, etc, can also be seen as, affecting us all, and to some degree, can cause some harm, and be the reason for some clients to be weary, inappropriate, problematic, etc, etc. So either we agree that we can all do things independently, or we elect a leader to comprise a list of how things are to be done the same, by us all....Until then, none of us has the right to police anyones business/business practices, nor should we want to.

 As I've said before, this "community" many escorts will comment towards, and lament about protecting, only ever seems to exist when it comes time for some escorts to gang up on another escort/s.....or when someone tries to volley positive feedback/support for their ways of thinking, or doing things. And it also seems to be these very same types of escorts who'll regularly defend their own business practices, by lamenting how they're "independents", and therefore they get to do things their way. They will also very easily exclude, or oust anyone from their "proverbial" community who doesn't follow their same beliefs/practices.....It's all so very hypocritical, imho and perhaps I'm seeing it all wrong. Either way.... it's time we all minded our own businesses, and not those of others. If we are going to keep pushing the "we are all independents" strategy, or, we all start operating the same......At least that's how I see it.