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Don't be this guy.....

28 Mar, 2024

My third meeting with this client was prebooked on Saturday for the following Wednesday.....The first date with him went relatively smooth. The second was rocky. He called an hour before to cancel, then after a few back and forths, agreed to show up for our scheduled time, albeit, a bit late. There were some other frustrations, but I forgave them, as I thought he was just a disorganized, but nce person......Until Wednesday arrived. He was asked to call an hour before our meet time to get a refresh of my locale. We were to meet at 1pm. Noon came and went, then at 1210, I messaged him....... He asked what day it was, then claimed he had forgotten all about our date. Without going into specific details of what was said, as those details might identify him, he made a bunch of excuses, and said to give him 5 mins and he'd message back. I gave him 20 mins and still no word from him. So I called him. He said he'd get back to me,  that he was in the middle of something.....by this time it was nearing 1pm. I messaged him asking for payment as he was obviously not going to make our scheduled time. And as per my website states, if you cancel within 24 hours, full payment is expected.After a few more back and forths, he agreed to e-transfer my hourly fee, which is 350. By later afternoon I still hadn't gotten his transfer so I messaged him asking when it would be sent..... he made more excuses and all he said was that I would get it. Supper hour came and still no payment. So I sent another message. At this time I was angry. He said I would have it when he got back to his office. I checked again and still no transfer at the end of the night. So I messaged again and now he was telling me I'd have it first thing in the morning and that me waiting a day to receive payment wasn't unreasonable...........First thing in the morning came and went and no payment. After arguing with him again, he said I must be desperate......by 1030 am I received 300. I sent him a text telling him thanks for shorting me 50$. He responded that "he knows people that have to work 2 days to make 300", and that he honoured our agreement, and shame on me, sad really".....

This asshole who is now blocked, seemed to think that it was his right to decide when an escort should get paid, and how much they deserve to be paid. He made no apologies to me for messing up, nor did he accept any accountability for how things transpired. He just blamed me for being desperate, and greedy. Desperate, lol, well I am the type who'll spend 3000 to collect 300. It's the principle. I'm also not greedy. I didn't expect more, I wanted what was agreed upon, my hourly rate!!

So to those who have his mindset....when you book an escort, you make a commitment. If you cannot fulfill that commitment by showing up, then it is your responsibility to make that person whole, finacially. It is not up to you to decide how much the escort deserves, nor when that transaction is to take place. The escort deserves payment within the time the date was booked, not when you find it convenient to send it. Adults take responsibility for their actions. Assholes don't!!